The come back kids...

Ahhhhhhhh I am going down woooooo I am falling fast ...

I am not going down without a fight,you can not count me out until I am dead those are the words that I scream to myself when life is bashing me very hard and I find myself on my knees.

Oh yes! LOUDS and PROUDS I am went there ,as you can see today I will be talking about the comebacks from life's knock outs.

Firstly allow me to paint you a picture with words for you to truly understand where I am coming from right? 

Cool, so your knocked out, quick your out cold.Down and out ,your fighting spirit is depleted your feeling hopeless,useless and all you can see is infinite darkness . No one wants to be  around you because you reek of negative energy and self pity. You are just a lump of something that use to be a human being.

You come back fighting :http://goo.gl/3Eb8kF

Life has given you a proper KO (Knock OUT!) . Now what are you going to do? 

Simple get up, the first step is getting up.Sure advice will come at you thick and fast but before all that just get up,stand on your own two feet then it will be easier to sort through that advice coming at you.

A come back is not easy when you just had an intimate moment with the floor because your feet gave out from under you.Many think you are weak and  you can not handle life.

But hold it right  there you must fall at some point because you come back stronger,fighting and relentless because you know what failure feels like.

I speak from my own personal experience and I am not a therapist but sometimes these knock outs come out of no where  and before you know it you are down but many say it is the choice you make to either pity yourself while you are down or get up keep moving brush it off like your Chuck Norris squashing a bug.

Today I give a shout out to the come back kids you know who you are, you have been to hell and back. Fought hard and you have the scars to prove it and the best revenge is that you are still standing,stronger then ever ,even after everything that was thrown at you.You were counted out of life never to be seen again but look here,there you are living life to the fullest.

The spirit of a come back kid is embodied in many ordinary people sisters,daughters ,sons or fathers and mothers. People will talk about your failures,defeats and mistakes but your comeback will definitely steal the show.Failure does not define you , you are a come back kid. If you want to share your come back stories with  me,yes please and  if not then stay a silent hero.

LIVE LOUD and PROUD all you come back KIDS!

I am out PEACE! :)

Your the ADULT now...oh no are you talking to me?

Oooooh, oh yeah its about that time again where I get all LOUD and PROUD.
It felt so good typing that out.
So helloooo my family of LOUDS and PROUDS out there how you doing?
Good,bad, okay maybe or thriving.Oh okay I see at least your alive right. Lets get right to it family.

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Today I want to talk about ADULTHOOD the growing pains of our lives like people it is seriously getting real out here. We are adults now like we are growing up.
I am growing up and I am not completely in love with the idea of adulthood.


Seriously there was a time when I ran around barefoot,laughing,fighting climbing trees and getting dirty but you know what I was thinking that whole time wait until I become an ADULT and I will rule the world.

Like hello now I want just want to be all forever young  and no growing up.

Things are changing so fast firstly ,YOU GOT BILLS,BILLS,BILLS hanging over your head rent,taxes medical aid and car insurance like the list goes on and on.
You become responsible so responsible that you taking care of yourself and so many others,
Your metabolism slows DOWN like way down and you can not eat whatever you want anymore.


You become so rational like rent money can not be party money or booze money no your the adult now and you have to be ever so rational.
You loose touch with so many friends high school is over and have you have less and less time to hang out.

It comes to a dreaded point where you do not want to party on weekends, SLEEP is what you desire right there no partying. Remember that saying you will sleep when you are DEAD well HA! when your an adult  what you want your is to sleep NOW not when your dead.
 All of a  sudden you have a routine and you feel so boring because it becomes harder to be spontaneous and free.

Then it becomes so BAD that you start sounding like your parents when you see other people having fun and you say things like "how childish don't these people  ever sleep" or you say the youth of today my goodness they have  no respect I remember when we were that age we used to ...."

OH! my goodness you used to be the youth of today like whether we like it or not we are heading that towards that direction of ADULTHOOD.
Growing up and facing the big bad world.

But for now I will still be singing "FOREVER YOUNG" from the top of my lungs.I am not ready to let go. I say NO,NO,NO (I know I sound nothing like Amy Winehouse).

LOUDS and PROUDS adullthood is either coming or its already here do not try to fight it , you will lose and adulthood will win so just stay young at HEART  and make memories of epic portions to remember throughout your adulthood.

Truly inspiring...

Well helloooooo my family to all the LOUDS and PROUDS,I hope you are thriving living life with its ups and downs,
ME! I am taking each day as it comes chasing my dreams in the PR industry. Well LOUDS and PROUDS I actually want to talk about inspiration been inspired you know?

I am not going to talk about what inspires you or what is inspiration give me more credit that.
I am actually going to talk about this story that truly inspired me and it got me thinking about how much effort we are willing to put in to at least curve out a life for ourselves.

Ladies and gentlemen a nine year old homless little boy from the Philippines called Daniel Cabrera has been studying on the pavement using the light  from the window of a close by McDonald just to study. A college student (Joyce Torrefranca) took a picture of this boy posted it on Facebook wrote the caption: "I got inspired by a kid"

Pictures by Joyce Torrefranca: Doing his homework using light source from a fast food restaurant's window.

It does not end there on Facebook it went Virol and people sent donations to little Daniel. I guess they were so inspired they sent him donations of school supplies and a college scholarship.

I am truly inspired by this boy. He is not letting the fact that he is homeless stop him from doing his homework or studying.


He is living on the streets everyday of his life but he is willing to forget that and focus on his school work.
We need more stories like this because this is purely inspirational.

Inspiration in life is very important because it drives you to want to do more and be more.Daniel is  doing everything within his power not to let his circumstances rule his life, my goodness he is so determined to be better even if it means doing his homework on the streets. 

Daniel Cabrera doing his homework on a pavement in the Mandaue City.

 LOUDS and PROUDS this is an inspirational story of note this boy is teaching us so many lessons but most of all he is teaching us to go after our dreams no matter what literally no matter WHAT!
Daniel does not want to stay poor forever,he wants to reach his dreams and he will do it because he is absolutely determined not to stay homeless forever.

LOUDS and PROUD all I can say is stay inspired and if you are not inspired then find something that will truly inspire you ,think of Daniel.

A letter to my 16 year old self.

Helllooooooo  LOUDS and PROUDS  
OH!  yeah its me,
I am such a blast from the past.
 I am totally  sorry this 9-5 be keeping me very busy ,so I am forgiven right?
Come on guys, I did warn you that I would be writing less and less hey but to be fair I did not tell you how bad it would be right? sorry (pouting with puppy dogs eyes)

So please bear with me I truly want to try this out and write a letter to my 16 year old self .
I know right a bit redundant.
 I should have written a letter  at 16 years old to my now in the twenties year old self but you know how things sometimes go in reverse.

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So what would I say to my 16 year old self simple really and I know it is such a cliche but the truth
BE YOURSELF ....let me start from the beginning



Dear Me (At 16 becoming a woman )

Girl be yourself no need to try and fit in.
Yes they call you a nerd but you are not a nerd  you just study hard that's all.
You are not going to grow any taller or  get bigger boobs accept it and MOVE ON!

I know you like reading but girl did you really have to read your book at the disco instead of dancing really come on put the book down and dance...

Your are too serious my girl hey loosen up a little hey and oh by the way your legs are sexy enough stop obsessing over your legs my girrrrl. Treat yourself to a mini skirt.

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I am sorry to burst your bubble my girl but you will not be able to read every book in the world okay like seriously you can try but its going to be a mission and a half.

Oh yes so you feel you do not have an identifiable talent like singing and dancing and you have no idea what you are going to do after school  well that's okay you continue studying it will come to you.

(Let me tell you a little secret in the future you will work in PR girrrl , I know right bet you never saw that  one coming).

Oh yes girrrrl you do talk too much but do not worry you got friends who love you no matter what.
Finally 16 year old me there is so much I could tell you but I rather keep it  short when your my age you will understand.

Remember to stay spunky, outspoken and never stop reading it will keep you going and continue to be outrageously funny and insane you will definitely come into your own one day be LOUD and PROUD!

NO to Xenophobia...really seriously NO!

LOUDS and PROUDS my is  heart broken, truly broken into tiny little pieces. It is fine you can call me a little softies and a cry baby but to watch hatred takeover to such a point where someone is burned alive in broad day light just because he or she is a foreigner just destroys me to the core..

My goodness I see no race or gender just human beings expressing such cruelty it goes beyond oppression  its just plain horrid. LOUDS and PROUDS I feel extremely powerless, it is days like this where I wish I was some sort of super hero and  I  could just swoop in and do something about such cruelty on mankind.

But you know LOUDS and PROUDS I will do one thing and that   is to speak out because I pray everyday to the Lord all mighty that I do not go into such a dark place that I have so much hatred I kill another human being just because of their ethnicity. I am speaking out I am saying NO! to Xenophobia NO!

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I  pray for those already affected truly I pray for them and LOUDS and PROUDS speak out against such cruel behavior right now we have power in words. We must speak out and condemn such cruelty. After seeing such my heart can never mend someone been burned alive...
I am scarred for life.

LOUDS and PROUDS speak out against xenophobia.

All the way to MARS babe...

LOUDS and PROUDS! please forgive ME! , I have been neglecting you so badly but It a warning I will be blogging less frequently these days. You know  its not by choice, but I am not going anyway.I am here to stay.

ALL right then lets get right down to business seriously I did not want to talk about this but I have been hearing about it everywhere  I went the MARS project the ONE WAY ticket to MARS as you in you are going to live there and NEVER come back to earth.

Call me dramatic but I was like WHAT?  wait say that again live there?

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Wow LOUDS and PROUDS I was floored apparently it will take about 8 months to even get to MARS. I am all for progress discovering new things you know ONE SMALL STEP FOR MAN,ONE GIANT LEAP FOR MANKIND! 

But Neil Armstrong did not have to live on the moon forever , The question  is would I truly leave planet earth and journey to the unknown ,uhm,..
NO! I rather watch others do it  seriously is there any water there, what about the air and the living conditions my goodness these individuals are welling to go as FAR as MARS forever.BRAVE hearts indeed.

They are on some to INFINITY AND BEYOND BUZZ light year kind of vibes.
But here is another thought , if this MARS project does become successful and there is a fully fledged population on MARS and MARS is there place to be.

WHO will decide who goes to MARS? can all of us go there?
I really wonder hey
SO LOUDS and PROUDS stay loud and curious debate is the way to get a conversation going please you must let me know would if you go to MARS forever?

I was HERE......

OLa......LOUDS and PROUDS yes please forgive for I have been gone for so long. What can I say corporate is a busy place to be.Any how today I want to tackle the topic of celebrating life you KNOW!

I saw a photo in the newspapers about this guy busy texting on his phone while a HUMPBACK WHALE passed him by ...LIKE seriously who gets to see a Humpback whale everyday?

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I don't I mostly live my life through books and TV .I would love to see a HUMPBACK whale with my own eyes...

So this got me thinking are we truly living life or are we just ducking down on survival mode the whole way.I mean I know Life is rough like some hell bent ROLLACOSTA but you need to take a step back and BREATHE.

I am in no way belittling people's suffering or hardships in life.
I am  just saying  live a little, one day you will ask yourself did I truly live my LIFE!



I say lets celebrate life, be spontaneous, do things to shake up our comfort.
Lets challenge ourselves you Know ....
Take one risk or two ,so what if you fail GET UP AND DO IT AGAIN.

LOUDS and PROUDS I will leave you with these words ...FEAR has killed more DREAMS then FAILURE ever did.